What do you think his intentions / plans were, in bringing up the growing-pot-in-loft-bed story? Do you think he wanted to discuss it? And for what purpose, with what outcome? Should I try to re-approach him and try to discuss this? If so, how do I initiate this conversation, and how do I word it, etc?
What I'd like to get out of this is: Does he know FOR SURE that I'm growing, and that this wasn't some HUMONGOUS coincidence? I admit, this can't possibly be a coincidence... he HAS to know... but just in case of the 0.0000001% chance that it is a coincidence...
Another thing I'd love to get out of this, but am not necessarily sure I know how to go about it, is if he really is cool with it, then how do I potentially bring up the idea / topic of being able to rent out another studio in this building (there's always a unit or two available every month or two) for living, and using my current unit for growing. Perhaps offering him some sort of compensation for keeping it "don't ask, don't tell" or similar (don't want make it sound like I'm involving him).
And oh, one more detail: we've never chatted or anything, or really much more than a "hey" or a "good morning" or something while passing by in the hallway or laundry room. But I think we're on "cool" status. When I first moved in, after signing the lease I bought lunch for him and his stepson. Since then, once every couple of months or so I've bought him a chocolate cake (costs me about $11, pre-made from grocery store) after finding out he loooves chocolate cake. He's thanked me for it each time. This was, of course, in preparation for when the shit might hit the fan... just like it seems to have in a way...
Oh, by the way, I'm a "legal" medical grower in the state of California. No one is going to jail for small-time stuff like this. Only when the DEA gets involved does it become a real case.
I live in tiny junior studio apartment, in a crappy neighborhood, in a big city. Residing across the hallway from me is the live-in apartment / building manager,
Keep my lips shut about WHAT? He already knows.
What I'd like to get out of this is: Does he know FOR SURE that I'm growing
Keep my lips shut about WHAT? He already knows.
Haha that's crazy! I didn't even know that. I'm nowhere near 72 plants right now, but that's good to know.slips said:He has already been growing there for months, and am sure his apt mng already knew (just let him know now). Just stay under 72 female plants and the law will always be on your side where you live. They don't count males or unsexed plants also where you live, so it makes you even look better .