Of funerals and such........

[pieceofmyheart]

A member of my immediate family died recently, closest person I have ever lost in my life.
I know she is in a good place and death is a part of life, we grief for us. Our loss of being able to to talk to and hug this person.

But anyway, I was way in the country, no internet access all week. That usually drives me nuts but not this time. The neighbors and church congregation were amazing. Food was brought in, flowers sent, offers of guest rooms for traveling family members...the community was great.

We didn't have to anything but make the memorial arrangements and visit. I remember growing up that is how it was in my town when someone passed, but it amazed me that it is still the exact same way.

Love thy neighbor, and they live it.

 

[Guest]

So very sorry to hear of your loss!!

Take care!


Bh

 

[Guest]

I am sorry to hear of your loss. But they are now in a better place. A place with God. I shall lite a candle, smoke a bong, and wish good karma for you and yours

 

[Artie Lange]

sorry for your loss, death is the shittiest thing to go through

 

[Guest423]

i feel you, i have a funeral this weekend, cuz was in a car accident.

 

[cough_cough_eer]

I'm sorry for your loss POMH..

 

[guest3854]

Death , tha ultimate sin . Sorry to hear of you and your family's loss . Only time will ease tha pain .

 

[Tunefull]

Ahh sorry to read(but good in a good way(Lol if u see what i mean))*SMileS*

I agree with last post tho(by steel)
Time is the only thing that will ease the pain
Time wont make you forget
but will make it so u can remeber certain things,with a warm feeling(rather than a gutted feeling))

Good luck
And Dont feel u have to be morbid(not that i am saying you are)
I have been to a lot of Funerals(of close family memebers(Had to organise quite a few(Never forget having to phone my aunty to tell her her brother(My father)Was dead...She just would not belive me(I was only like 15 at the time))

And they have all been funny happy events...No one in my family was ever religous.So it just be shits and giggles from the time we arrived*SmileS*

Again good luck(And smile)

 

[Sleepy]

sorry to hear...

keep the memories alive if you can...

 

[Guest]

XOXOXO ~ POMH,
so sorry to hear.

hope all is OK now,
by you and yours <3

with all our love,
cj

 

[shovelhead]

Someone said that time will ease the pain
Of two lives love has torn apart
But I believe whoever wrote that song
Never had abroken heart.....

 

[Maturin]

Oh no.....I'm sorry I'm so late in reading this. I grieve for you, pomh.

 

[sloskank]

my oucle died 1 month ago.. i know how it feels...

the suffering is the worst.when u see him,in what pain he is at the moment,and cant do anything..


bad :/

 

[pieceofmyheart]

Thanks for all the well wishes, we made through and all is settled. My Aunt was cremated and loved to go to the beach, so her ashes will be taken there soon and poured into the sand and water.

I dreamed of her the other night. I was at my parent's and lots of family was there, like it was for her funeral. I look up to see her walking in the living room. She sat on the couch and I am hugging her and saying ,"I knew it! I knew it was a mistake"
She had her arm around me and was patting my back and saying" no mistake, honey, no mistake." She was smiling, like smiling really big.

Thing was, no one else saw her. I kept telling them to look but no one would.............

 

[Guest]

POMH, my condolences on your loss. i know I'm a bit late but I hope everything is going well for you

 

[Lucky 7]

yeah, what ^ he said . . . . death is soooooo inconvenient.

 

[Guest]

amazing dream POMH

wow!

your aunt really loves you and she shows it allright

She IS there with you. But not everyone can see her

love communicating from another dimension