Negative Vibes Are more stressful than anything

[EatCannabisRaw]

omggggg

so it occured to me

negative vibes suck...and

that its better to be homeless, than live somewhere where a person has negative vibes.

i was recently homeless, then i was surfing on people's couches

all was well

but then...
a friend from one of the houses i was couchsurfing on said i could stay with HER

turns out. she has a nice pad! semi quiet... dog... i can have the place to myeslf alot.

I thought everything was cool. I have a lot to be thankful for here... etc etc.

But she has negative vibrations alot. I feel them... I can't really even smoke cuz it just opens me more up to vibrations (ie her negative ones)

i've been trying to eliminate stress in my life recently. i find noise stressful.. being homeless (obviously)

but it seems the bigger source of stress... is from people who are living stressful lives, and who's energy rubs off on you (if your forced to be around them)!

this girl is doing a doctorate program. she's not that into it. she gets really stressed out (not much to do to avoid that)

and so its like... sometimes i feel trapped in this cage. sure my owner takes care of me. gives me food to eat, a place to sleep...

but its like the dog who is taken care of, who's owner is always kicking him or just treating him badly.

my intuition says i need to get out. negative vibes are horrible. give me positive poor people any day, rather than rich negative people. suckk

 

[Guest]

this is not meant to be negative by any means:

get a job and provide for yourself or if you have a job save money for a place, then you will be the one creating and harnessing the vibes in your abode. k+ for a shitty day

 

[Guest]

free loaders give me negative vibes.

 

[DoubleJ]

Beggars cant be choosers bro.

Hate to be clichéd but unless you've got a better alternative, looks like you're stuck with it for now!

 

[Comatose]

Ask her for some money go get a sack and get her really high maybe then she will just sit there eat and watch t.v.

 

[EatCannabisRaw]

haha...
i'm not trying to be a free-loader. i'm travelling right now and she is letting me stay.
it sucks, thats all. i could leave sure.. but i guess better option is to just stay out of the place during the day. getting a job sounds good...if i stay here.

ay ay ay. yeah i should get her high. i should share that experience with her why didn't i think of that duuuh

 

[newbgrow]

I agree. Negativity can be addictive. Addictive and contagious. And once you start hanging with negative people, you start spiraling down too. Unfortunately, unless you're rich or can get around freely, most of the time you're just stuck and have to deal with it.

 

[TheBigGreen1]

Get the hell out of her house. She let you stay there for a while. You owe her more than what you've given her. Go sponge off someone else who dosen't have their priorities in order. Beggars can't be choosers. If you are really homeless the only people you who can bother you are the cops. And most of the time they will just tell you to move on. (I have been there) Or they can take you to jail and at best you will get 3 hots and a cot. With freedom comes responsibility. It is obvious that by her actions that she dosen't want you there. It's time to move on and sell your sob story to someone new.

 

[toohighmf]

freedom through work..

freedom through work..

I'm not gonna ask why you are homeless. I have couch surfed many a year, but I did what i could to provide. If I was broke I took the first job offered. If you have any speck of brain cells you would be surprised what type of low wage job you can get. Have you know special skills? can you swing a hammer? there's a job for you no matter how demeaning. It aint fair to freeload, period! I used to screw girls for places to stay, meet rich girls, and in the end.. it all came back to me 10 fold. thats when it struck me to strive a little higher and look for better jobs that suit me. I went from 0-250k+ a year in just 2 years of applying myself in a legitimate enterprise. everyone has the power. now whining that the negative vibes are messing w you.. leave.. get out and dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out. either start goin down or get a job and rid yourself of these neg vibes by not being there and actually making a living instead of leaching off others. in a nice house on top of it! Hell I used be squatter! I lived with other transients shooting drugs and watching people die from speedball OD's in peoples houses that were up for forclosure, or yellow tagged from the '94 earthquake. 8 of us rented a 2 bedroom apt for 900 a month even.. you need to get a job and find some roomates while looking for a better job. find grower roomates and get to work. gods work. let work free you!

 

[dbuzz]

i know exactly what you mean about negative energy around you. it's a strong, weird, contagious force. i was always skeptical about things like this up until about a year ago.

i know this chick who's obsessed with the seven energy bodies and planes of consciousness. there are plenty of mediation, mantras, and other rituals to cleanse your space of negative energy. i need to learn a couple.

 

[Cannabinofil]

i like to be happy ... i found that a good way to decuplate a happy sentiment, is giving thanks for beeing a part of creation, it somehow leviates from ones shoulders, petty wants ...


think about it, we live on a grain of sand in the vaccum of space, yet we all think we're individualy "top gun" or "da shit" and such ... humility is a hard thing grasp but once obtained, realy clarify things

hope this helped someone

 

[smellthefunk420]

free loaders give me negative vibes.

no shit

 

[clorox]

"oh man, im moochin this bitches pad, but shes so negative, she gives me a roof to sleep under her, but shes so uptight!"

UHH, SHE HAS A HOMELESS PERSON MOOCHING ALL HER SHIT

 

[PazVerdeRadical]

you kids.... so cute with your "grown up" and "macho" theories hehehe...

if i told someone who was broke and homeless that they could stay with me, that would not give the right to treat people badly and project my negativity unto such a person. that is insane, no ammount of material things you think you owe and share does not make you better than anyone else nor gives you the right to treat anyone badly, period.

peace

 

[NOKUY]

I bet your using her computer for ICMAG too

man suck up whatever pride you have and get your shit together.

I have been homeles by choice more than a cpl times, and insted of mooch off of someone I slept MY ass in the back of MY truck until I figured my shit out.

that was after traveling 4000 miles between colorado and Alaska, , and I still worked more than fulltime while my GF worked fulltime, and we have a BIG dog ......and we all slept in the back of a shortbed truck w/ out a camper, but a str8 shell....in seward alaska for MONTHS where it doesn't stop raining. (we did the same shit in a camper van in Alaska too).

we moved to a cabin that had no runnin water or electric....and did that for several months....

we NEVER mooched a penny or an inch of floorspace or internet connection or quik cell phone call off of anyone for even a second....but we have experiences from all that which half the time cannot even be explained...and I'm not gonna try right now.

didnt have weed to get us by...no LQ...hardly any food ....just brutal nature and life and lessons that you may wanna (or may have to) learn.

I wish ya luck man...but I'd strongly suggest that you bounce, and figure your shit out w/ out being a burden to anyone.

...thats what you are right now is a "burden"

 

[dinosaurus]

yeah, traveling involves moving from one place to another. Not mooching off a girl to stay at her crib, while she is busy trying to better herself with a doctorate degree.

 

[PazVerdeRadical]

the other day as i read the original post, i would have assumed that the other readers actually read the thing; the detail is that she offered him to give him room and food, obviously since he had told her that he is traveling, homeless and broke. hey, if i offered such an offer to some bum, i would would have to take care of that bum well and right. if i didn't, it would be kind of sick to offer someone help to then resent the person whom you are helping becaue the person is a bum, well, duh! i don't get some responses, seriously

 

[Harry Gypsna]

well ive kipped rough in doorways, sofa surfed plenty, lived on traveller sites(hippies not tarmaccers or dodgy builders-although i have actually worked with these taravellers too)) ive lived in my tent for 6 months.... and my dream home to be honest would still be a bus with all the seat ripped out and done out with a nice wood burning stove, deck on the roof and a bender at th back for some "Al fresco dining"
ive lived in squats, and caves, and amzingly enough even houses lol....
the thing is...ur always a guests when ur staying with someon else...you cant ever really kick back an relax....
Those negative vibes.....they might well be a hint... its important not to outstay your welcome...even if you were invited to crash. You gotta be bringing something to the table too... if the windows need washing, wash em...do the dishes without moaning or being asked....
buy some food for the fridge.....
Maybe shes tense because she cant bring any guys home bcause of the hippy on the sofa lol.
Only thing that stops me heading back out again is my motherplants lol.

 

[PazVerdeRadical]

that's sound advice Harry, specially the part of not outstaying the welcome, doing dishes and helping around the house.
btw, guests are able to kick back and relax, provided the host isn't a dick of course.

peace.

 

[newbgrow]

I agree with everyone. As Lee Bollinger from Columbia U. learned the hard way, always respect your guests. And if you aren't going to respect them, don't invite them! I truly believe in this bit; it'll make the world a better place if everyone were more open and honest to each other. On the other hand, if you're the guest, you should be expected be mindful of your stay as well, not to outstay your welcome, as previously said.
There's always a delicate equilibrium when one person decides to help another.

However, back on topic, "negative vibes are stressful." I know exactly what you meant.