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Mo's Manic Month

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Well as the title states .. Mo has had the month from hell. A little history .....

About a month ago I find out from my wife of 15 years is leaving me .. that sucked but I was dealing. We have always had a agreement and a understanding of what would happen if I was caught doing what I do which isn't much compared to others. Personal smoke and bragging rights is all I am after. So she knows ok and has always said she would not do anything like that. So about a week ago she just up and leaves with her sister and hasn't called or will not answer my calls. She has not used her bank card and as far as I know she had no money to speak of.

Ok here is where I am today ... I get home and am unlocking my front door and notice that it is not dead bolted. I noticed this immediately because I always dead bolt. I come in and here my dogs barking which is also odd because they are in a closed room in cages. I walked down the hall and notice that all my doors are open. I go to my room and noticed that my flower chamber is ripped open and all my ladies are gone. They left my parent stock. Thank God ... I have worked to long to get them.

They took all my cured smoke. So I am sitting here on the couch in shock right now wondering what I should do. I know I have to change the locks tonight.

I don't have much to take down since they took it all. I have places I can take my parents but I just can't believe this has happened. I thought about this a million times never thinking it would happen.


Shit
 

The Uncola

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Sorry to hear of your bad situation. I haven't been married but I had an F room mate who I lived with for about a year. When she started acting crazy- Yelling and ranting and raving about what a jerk I was, I had several plants growing. After puzzling over WTD for a few days, I scrapped the grow and she moved out about one month later. I was afraid to grow for 6 months after b/c I wasn't moving. I own this house damn it.
I never even learned where she went. I didn't want her to drop the dime on me.

After a few months of hot peppers :bandit: I have returned to the real thing.
I haven't had as much going as you have. Karma is a reality. That move was below the belt.
 
Hey Mo' sorry to hear about your troubles, i've also had a shitty month my wife also wants a divorce, my brother got stabbed and has a collapsed lung, and to toop it off im DEAD broke with a stack o' bills. Life sucks some time...

But hey Keep your head up hopefully it gets better


p.s. so she ripped your plants and stole the stash??? If you are legal then report that shit. if not just beef up the old home secuirity, do they sell land mines at Home Depot???
 
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Yea she finally called me last night to reassure me that she had nothing to do with it. She must have gotten my message because she answered the phone. Here is what I know. To much CSI. I personally know who did it I just can't prove it. I can count on less than one hand how many people know what I do. The person/people that did it had a key. There has only ever been one key that was given out and it was to her sister that needed a place to stay. Her sister was with her in the beginning of her little trip. I found out last night that her sister had been back in town for a couple o days. How convenient that this would happen when she is back in town and knowing her sister was gone and I was at work and also thinking that we are getting a divorce. Also the people knew exactly what they were looking for ... nothing else was touched. They left all my equipment and all my vegging plants and mothers.

No I am not in a legal state so I am fucked for the most part I can't even report that I was ripped off. I wish I had a friend close that I could give all my mothers to. I hate to kill them. I don't have many but I worked my ass off to get them 5+ years. I gotta tear the down room today. I can't chance it.
They are stupid for the most part because the flowering plants were not even close to being ready. What gets me the most is these people know what is in here now and could come back anytime or turn me in anytime if they get in trouble. I guess I am done.

I know some will say I am stupid for setting here and spilling all of this. You peeps are my only outlet that could even understand my situation. I will be taking off work today to take care of business here and get everything cleaned up.

Take Care
 

DickAnubis

Member
Mo, you need to move.
And just to say something you've probably already said to yourself twenty thousand times in the past 24 hours. "Next time make sure the number of people who know what you do can be not counted. At ALL. ZERO."

Not trying to be harsh brother. Even when we're growing for sport and personal use, not selling, others get jealous. Others need cash. Others just want to fuck you over.
Very sorry for you trouble.
Your wife, then your hobby. Sounds like not much left. Take the doggies and start again.

Good Luck Brother. May your Gods watch over you.


PEACE DA
 
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Shit I know I need to move but I can't fucking afford to move right now so all I can do is beef up the security and tear down the room and wait to see what happens. I think my dogs kept them from tearing up the whole place because I know they were raising hell. Hell the dogs are worth more than the plants were. Needless to say I got almost no sleep last night.
 
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Well Mo is officially no longer a MJ grower ... not by choice. The room looks nothing ever existed in there. I think I am at the saddest point in my life right now ... in a month everything I based my life on is gone. I am not sure when they or if they will ever return. I feel fucking hollow inside. I was able to store all of my equipment and save my cuts but I may never get to grow them. I had SFV OG @ 30 days, Arcat Trainwreck @ 30 days, and ESCD @ about 40 days. I had to cut up my moms they were to big to transport. So 10 years of begging and trying to get these cuts was all for fucking nothing.

I'll be around here dreaming of growing again but I don't if I have the heart to do it all over. Makes motherfucker wanna cry.

I am a inadvertent victim of the War on Marijuana if it were legal maybe they would not feel the need to steal my shit.

Take Care
 
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9Lives

three for playing, three for straying, and three f
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i can relate...worst month of my life also...lost my ipod, broke up with my girl (4years)..and broke my leg..

Keep your chin up! ;)

Too bad you dont have anything to smoke..i've waked and baked 5 days straight...im waaay relaxed :D
 

teddybud

spreadin da love
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that blow's mo, i know how it is though. buck up... keep your true friends close... pm me if you ever start goin again.
 

Haps

stone fool
Veteran
I reckon many of us have danced this dance in our time. I am 3 years down the road from where you are, only I lost my life, home, and stash/grow/genetics. It will take time for this to pass, the world begins to resume some normalicy in about two years, if you don't flip out before then. Try to see the long road, each day this year is a challenge, meet them one at a time.

You are right now in the forge of life, being heated, prepared for the future - it is up to you to either become a stronger better man for the tempering, or melt in dismay - the choice is yours.
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Naa flipping out is not a option. Someone has to stay responsible in this relationship. It's time for new digs tho. Who knows this may open new doors for me and a opportunity to do it better may come along. I just have to get over not having the good weed to smoke, back to buying shit weed I guess. Now that's depressing cause weed around here sux. Really can't afford to buy weed either. Guess it's time for a much needed break.

Thanx Teddybud and Haps.
 

Tarkus

Mother Nature's Son
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You don't really need to beef up security all that much, just let your dogs have the run of the place when you are not there. They should be able to handle an intruder.
 

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