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A great day fishing with my daughter !!

Stinkymutt

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I had been planning a fishing trip with my 9 yr old daughter for weeks . Every weekend something came up or it was raining. The Black Flies are out full bore , if your not from new england you just dont understand these little bastahds . They are horrible blood suckers that swarm like bees . Cant take deep breaths because 10 of em will get lodged in your throat kinda thick . But when the flies are out the trout are biting ( at least I hoped) . So Finally this past friday I made the plan in my head , told the wife and got shit ready to go. It promised to be a beautiful day according to weather forcast. My daughter was more than happy to hear the news we were going fishing in the morning. I had to build a rear canoe rack for my truck and load canoe and gear and was up till 11 high as hell doing all this yet nothing was forgotten ? Up at 4:30 to finish loading cooler , 1 beer , ice and sandwich supplies. We headed out at 5:30 after I had plenty of coffee . The ride to this particular fishing hole we were going too was an hour and a half away on dirt public land roads. Along the way we picked up my 14 yr old nephew to tag along ( I would need the muscle) . We met a buddy who was fishing in the same area who had just seen an albino moose down the road " a ways " . Being a once in a lifetime opportunity to see such a great animal we took a detour. We scoured the road for the moose but he was gone. This set us back an hour and I was getting grumpy from no meds as of yet . Finally we hit the destination at 8:30 a.m. and unloaded truck into canoe. At this hole the canoe needs to be dragged through the woods about 150 yds , but very thick underbrush type woods and yes the black flies were out in force. I was swearing and grumbleing and finally made the water. I snuck off for a little attitude adjustment as I was steaming by now cause of bugs and dragging canoe loaded down right through a hell hole with my daughter trying to ride in canoe for me! Then we hit the water , and I have to say the world just slipped away. We started catching fish right away and I was listening to my daughter talking about how beautiful the scenery is . We fished till noon in swarms of black flies and never once did I hear the words " I want to go home" . No way my lil girl was a trooper from the start she caught some very respectable trout and had a smile on her face the whole time. I had given her my head net so she was out of the swarm. But anyway we stopped to have lunch on shore and fished a small hole below a beaver dam. But as im sitting there my little girl cuddles up to me and says "dad I love you " then " Dad do I have a long time to be a kid". For some reason this struck a cord and im even tearing up writing this. What answer can I give my wonderful daughter and not lie to her . In this days cruel world we are forced to grow up too quickly and learn " life lessons" . The only answer that I could summon up was " baby you will always be a kid as long as that kid lives inside you " . Ended up she was one fish shy from her limit for the day and she was arguing to stay so she could catch one more. Not complaining about the bugs or heat or the walk out to the truck . We had a great memorable day and that one phraze is forever sounding in my head " dad do I have a long time to be a kid ? " . I have some great pics but it would ruin them to block out that smile on her face and post it in public forums.
Peace
Mutt
 

Mrs.Babba

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What a great day sm, very touching. Kids are so amazing, you have a wonderful daughter there, take her fishing many more times!! Thank you for sharing, made me tear up a little reading it, bringing up memories of my daughter when she was little. Thank you
 

Stinkymutt

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Ya my wife just asked me what was wrong and I had to explain why I was teary eyed lol
She is truly growing up way too fast for my liking !
 

Tynehead Tom

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black flies.... ya we have those up here in Canada too LOL
awesome story!! some of my best memories are hunting and fishing with the kids.
 

mean mr.mustard

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Truly a time to cherish!

That story brightened my day tremendously.

But my eyes got watery too...

That response was probably the most apt, and good on you to realize it.

I would have been lost for words.

Love the love Dad.

My favorite memories of childhood are all outdoors.
 

Gypsy Nirvana

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Yeah....happy little story, and just goes to show what joy our kids can bring us....I'm almost envious....ya see I haven't been able to be around my little daughter (she will be 8 years old in June) for nearly 3 years now, because I was locked up, then deported from the country she is still in, while I'm on the other side of the planet trying to get her Mum (my wife) qualified for a UK visa....Hopefully by Christmas I will be able to get this visa sorted..

Anyway man......enjoy these special times with her while she is still a kid, and you can see her eyes light up when she discovers something new....with you.
 

ronbo51

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Both my kids were raised in the bush in Maine. Home schooled. Out playing in the yard by lunch every day, down by the creek, climbing apple trees, looking at bugs in the garden, exploring. Taught them that every day is a gift, filled with hope and adventure. Showed them that even the fun stuff requires some hard work, nothing is free. In between the curriculum and the books lies an entire universe of experience that waits to be discovered. We used to take a family vacation to the beach in Delaware every year in early June and my kids would show up with their necks, wrists and ankles destroyed by black fly bites and the other relatives would always mention the near cruelty that we subjected them to by allowing them to get so bug bit.

But my kids can cook, make things, fix things, grow things. They are defiantly non conformist but realistically centered. They watched their parents work hard, get by with less and form strong relationships with neighbors and friends who were also self sufficient and capable. Now my daughter is 30 and runs a 10 million dollar business and my son is a chemist just starting down his own path as an adult. Your story brought me back to Spring in Maine and my homestead, now 12 years in the rear view mirror. Thanks and good luck with your own adventure.
 

Mrs.Babba

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Nice rondo, sounds like you gave a shit about your family, seems like a lot of parents don't these days. Not all but I see so much indifference when it comes to spending quality time with their kids, so sad.


Man these flies sound awful, we don't seem to have those out west, thank goodness!! You poor guys lol
 

stoned-trout

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she is a trooper ..I have had grown guys give up because of the black flies...me I have a bug suit in camo just for em....yeehaw
 

krunchbubble

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I had been planning a fishing trip with my 9 yr old daughter for weeks . Every weekend something came up or it was raining. The Black Flies are out full bore , if your not from new england you just dont understand these little bastahds . They are horrible blood suckers that swarm like bees . Cant take deep breaths because 10 of em will get lodged in your throat kinda thick . But when the flies are out the trout are biting ( at least I hoped) . So Finally this past friday I made the plan in my head , told the wife and got shit ready to go. It promised to be a beautiful day according to weather forcast. My daughter was more than happy to hear the news we were going fishing in the morning. I had to build a rear canoe rack for my truck and load canoe and gear and was up till 11 high as hell doing all this yet nothing was forgotten ? Up at 4:30 to finish loading cooler , 1 beer , ice and sandwich supplies. We headed out at 5:30 after I had plenty of coffee . The ride to this particular fishing hole we were going too was an hour and a half away on dirt public land roads. Along the way we picked up my 14 yr old nephew to tag along ( I would need the muscle) . We met a buddy who was fishing in the same area who had just seen an albino moose down the road " a ways " . Being a once in a lifetime opportunity to see such a great animal we took a detour. We scoured the road for the moose but he was gone. This set us back an hour and I was getting grumpy from no meds as of yet . Finally we hit the destination at 8:30 a.m. and unloaded truck into canoe. At this hole the canoe needs to be dragged through the woods about 150 yds , but very thick underbrush type woods and yes the black flies were out in force. I was swearing and grumbleing and finally made the water. I snuck off for a little attitude adjustment as I was steaming by now cause of bugs and dragging canoe loaded down right through a hell hole with my daughter trying to ride in canoe for me! Then we hit the water , and I have to say the world just slipped away. We started catching fish right away and I was listening to my daughter talking about how beautiful the scenery is . We fished till noon in swarms of black flies and never once did I hear the words " I want to go home" . No way my lil girl was a trooper from the start she caught some very respectable trout and had a smile on her face the whole time. I had given her my head net so she was out of the swarm. But anyway we stopped to have lunch on shore and fished a small hole below a beaver dam. But as im sitting there my little girl cuddles up to me and says "dad I love you " then " Dad do I have a long time to be a kid". For some reason this struck a cord and im even tearing up writing this. What answer can I give my wonderful daughter and not lie to her . In this days cruel world we are forced to grow up too quickly and learn " life lessons" . The only answer that I could summon up was " baby you will always be a kid as long as that kid lives inside you " . Ended up she was one fish shy from her limit for the day and she was arguing to stay so she could catch one more. Not complaining about the bugs or heat or the walk out to the truck . We had a great memorable day and that one phraze is forever sounding in my head " dad do I have a long time to be a kid ? " . I have some great pics but it would ruin them to block out that smile on her face and post it in public forums.
Peace
Mutt



Nice story, thanks for sharing...
 

Lester Beans

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That is a wonderful story and moment you will never forget. Ya go me their a little damp eyed. Glad you were able to have that experience and the fact you are a good father. That's saying something these days.
 

packerfan79

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That's awesome, I just had a knock down drag out fight with the wife. I am taking the kids up to the sierras to go camping and fishing. my wife hates anything with dirt. she tried to tell me I couldn't take my kids camping. I told her to pack her shit. That changed her tune. now she's going with us
 

trichosaurus

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Great story. :)

These days it seems as though parenting is a lost art. And it looks even more dismal for future generations. So sad.
But it sounds like your daughter will actually look back on these father-daughter adventures as fondly as you will. Good for you. And her. :tiphat:
 

Stinkymutt

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Thank you all for the kind words . Gypsy , I send good vibes your way and hope like hell you will see your family soon . My daughter has actually shown me many times now what it means to be a truly good hearted human . I call it pure innocense on the childrens part . I have never lied outright to my daughter other than a lie through omission ( which will be a story told when the time is right ) . Even when she saw my grow room for the first time and caught me smoking the first time , I told her straight up about mari J ! And yes these are the black flies of Maine haha . Packer Fan , did you tell her to pack her shit as in " get the hell out " or as in " your going to " ? Ive been on both sides of that one haha
Peace
Mutt
 

Stoner4Life

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Take a Kid Fishing.......

Take a Kid Fishing.......



lol :biglaugh:

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